

You've done work. Therapy, books, modalities, maybe years of it — and something underneath still hasn't moved.
You've had a powerful experience somewhere before and came home to little or no support.
You keep arriving at the same wall in your relationships, your body, your money, or your sense of self, and you're tired of being surprised by it.
You can hold your own state in a group. You're not looking for someone to carry you.
You want to be around people who are serious about this work, while also knowing how to connect and play through the challenges.




The Foundations program — everything you need to complete before you arrive. Preparation, mindset work, and the daily practices, so you land already inside the framework instead of spending day one catching up.
A consult call and medical review with Mel.
Community access from the day you're accepted.
Access to preparation support in the run-up.
A fully held, distraction-free environment.
Eight facilitators working as one integrated team.
Space to go at your own pace — never rushed, never left without witness.
Gentle guidance when you need it, quiet when you don't.
All creature comforts taken care of so you can stay fully present.
Professional photo shoot, raw, feminine, self-witness.
Two integration sessions with your coach.
Daily integration support through the retreat and the days following.
Ongoing community — a private forum, plus a weekly space where two coaches show up to take questions. Pseudonyms welcome. What's said there stays there.
Continued Foundations access.
First access to what's next, at the rate we hold for people who were in the room.














Southern California. We'll share the property details with you once you're enrolled.
No. Some people arrive having done a decade of it, some have done none. The Foundations program gets everyone to the same starting line.
Most likely, yes — and honestly, that's part of what makes the group what it is. A limited number of private rooms are available for an additional cost.
No. This is coaching, education, and integration work, and it doesn't replace medical or mental health care. Many of our clients have a therapist, and we're glad they do.
That's exactly what the medical review is for. Bring your full list to the consult call — we'll talk it through honestly, and if this isn't the right time for you, we'll tell you.
Then don't be. We work with devout people and with committed atheists and the work does what it does regardless of what you call it.
Two integration sessions, ongoing community, continued Foundations access, and the option to keep going with a coach at a rate held for people who were in the room. This is the part most experiences skip. It's the part that determines whether anything holds.
Good. That's an appropriate response to doing something real. Fill in the application and let's talk.
Yes. We offer a full satisfaction guarantee. If you're not blown away by the end of day one of The ADVANCE, simply let Mel or one of our facilitators know before day two begins, and we'll give you a complete refund.
Yes, and we'd love that. Through the Bestie Bundle, you and a friend can enroll together, and you'll each receive $1,100 off your spot. To request your shared code, email [email protected] with your name and your friend's name. We'll send you a code to use at checkout. Both spots need to be secured within 7 days of each other for the Bundle to apply.
The ADVANCE takes place in Utah, January 8–11. We will share the full location and travel details with every participant very soon! If you have questions about getting there in the meantime, reach out to us at [email protected].